Welcome to Pen’Pal: Redefining Connection, One Msg at a time

Pen’Pal transforms the dating experience by focusing on personality and values over appearances. Participants pose five core questions to potential matches, with key details like age, profession, hobbies, and relationship history remaining hidden until a match is made. This approach ensures connections are built on compatibility and mutual values rather than looks.

With Pen’Pal Messenger, you’ll engage in a journey free from profile photos or social media distractions, allowing you to build an authentic connection through words alone.

1. Answering Questions

• At the beginning, you’ll answer questions designed to reveal values and preferences. Women answer about men, and men about women. The twist? It’s all anonymous!

2. Ranking Based on Preferences

• Once questions are answered, you rank participants of the opposite group, from your top choice to the least preferred, based solely on answers.

3. Pairing Based on Mutual Interest

• Our algorithm matches you with someone who ranks you highly, ensuring mutual interest and shared values.

4. Getting to Know Your Match

• Over several weeks, you’ll communicate anonymously with your match through Pen’Pal Messenger, focusing solely on personality and interests.

5. The First Call and Final Reveal

• During the second-to-last week, enjoy a brief voice call with your match, adding excitement to the final in-person reveal in the last week.

Pen’Pal emphasizes personality and values over appearances. It’s a unique journey where you build a connection before seeing each other, creating an authentic bond.

No, sharing any identifying information like phone numbers or social media handles is restricted until the final reveal. Messages that include such attempts will be blocked.

The algorithm matches you with someone who ranks you highly, ensuring a match based on shared values and mutual interest.

Yes, Pen’Pal is available for download on the App Store and Google Play, making it accessible globally.

We encourage open communication. The first call is intended to add excitement, but there’s no obligation to meet if you’re not feeling a connection.

Conversations typically last 3-4 weeks, with a scheduled first call in the second-to-last week and the in-person meeting in the final week.

Typically, we ask the guy to choose the location for the first date. However, this season, we’re adding a special touch! We’ll be setting up a unique date experience for the two of you, complete with some exciting surprises to make your first in-person meeting even more memorable.

Get ready for an unforgettable experience that brings your Pen’Pal journey to life in a way you won’t expect!